Sex Q&A
Sex Q-A – Lasting Longer and More
November 20, 2009
by Angie Moore
Sex Q&A - Lasting longer in bed
Lasting longer in bed
How can I last longer in bed? I’m not a premature ejaculator, mind you, I just want to have the kind of control where I decide when it’s time to let go, not my penis.
Cass
Well, with time, and lots of practice, penis control is inevitable. But there are a few things you can do.
1- Act like a tease. When you feel the sensation coming on, pull out and lick her breasts or go down on her till the sensation subsides.
2- Activate your PC muscle. Kegel exercises will help you figure out which muscle this is exactly, and you can opt to squeeze it if you feel the point of no return approaching.
3- Practice by masturbating. Test your limits by masturbating. Your objective is to bring yourself to the brink of ejaculation and see how long you can linger in that state before you let go.
4- Pull down your scrotum. When you feel the sensation, sometimes pulling down your testes or scrotum will help delay ejaculation.
Hope this helps,
Angie
Will the sex improve?
I just lost my virginity with my boyfriend and we’ve been together for about six months. Now I don’t have anything to compare him to, but he just doesn’t seem very good at it. Will the sex get better?
Nora
Chances are, the sex will improve, but you do realize that it takes two to make sex bad. I mean, why don’t you take control of the situation and do the things that you think might make you feel good?
Also, I’m not sure to what capacity the sex is bad. Does he finish too fast? Does he bite your clitoris? Does he fumble about?
I understand that you’re a virgin, but that doesn’t mean that first time sex has to suck. Here are a few tips:
1- Guide him. You don’t have to speak to do this. Just grab his hand and put it on your vagina, Use his fingers to rub your clitoris or put his finger inside you and grind against them. He’ll figure it out.
2- Get on top. Take control of the sex by getting on top and riding him. You can squat, letting only his penis and your vagina touch while you go up and down, or you can lean forward and kiss him while you move your hips up and down.
3- Tease him. You can lick his penis and stop. You can dance for him but leave some items of clothing on. You can bend over and ask him if he likes your thong.
At the end of the day, he doesn’t want to suck in bed. He wants to satisfy you, so don’t fake orgasms or he’ll think he’s doing it right. Instead, guide him, tell him your fantasies, explore each other’s bodies rather than just have sex.
It will get better.
Angie
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2 Comments to Sex Q-A – Lasting Longer and More
randy
November 27, 2009 - 7:26 am
like to know more about sex and the sweetest part of it
randy
November 27, 2009 - 7:31 am
educate me more about my request