Women’s Sensitive Spots and More

Sex Q&A - Women's sensitive spot

Sex Q&A - Women's sensitive spot

Women’s sensitive spot

What is the most sensitive spot on a woman? I want to drive my girlfriend crazy but don’t want to head to the usual breasts, butt and vagina.


So glad to hear that you want to please your woman. Unfortunately, I haven’t slept with her, so I couldn’t tell you what her most sensitive spot it. What I’m trying to say here is that all women are different so there is no one-size-fits-all regarding hot spots.

What you can do, if you want to switch things up, is head to these erogenous zones:

  • Wrist
  • Nape of neck
  • Behind knees
  • Small of back

Lick, kiss, massage these areas, before, during and even after you do your thing.


Low sperm count

I was told that I have a low sperm count. Does this mean that I will never have kids?


Not necessarily. It’s possible that the reason you have a low sperm count can be reversed. For now do the following:

  • Switch to a healthier diet.
  • Exercise regularly.
  • Reduce stress.
  • Don’t smoke.
  • Reduce alcohol consumption.
  • Don’t use drugs.
  • Avoid tight underwear, saunas, hot tubs and anything else that may increase the temperature of the testicles.

It’s possible that your sperm count may go back to normal. Head back to your doctor ina few months to check. And next time, Tony, ask your doctor.


Congestion during sex

I have a problem that has been bothering me for years. Every time I have sex, my nose gets stuffy, and I feel congested. Am I normal?


Dear Tina,

Yes, my dear, you are very normal. This is actually a very common affliction among both men and women. It’s commonly referred to as vasocongestion – the raising of blood pressure and an accumulation of blood in the extremities. Sometimes, when a person gets sexually aroused, they develop flushing in the face, a rash on the chest, or even a stuffy, congested nose. It is nothing to worry about; it may take anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours to subside.


Vibrator confusion

I want to buy a vibrator but there are so many varieties out there that I feel intimidated. Please advise.


Ressa, your best bet is to start off with a traditional vibrator, and take it from there. Once you feel like you have passed the traditional vibrator, you can head off in a different direction and opt for more creative fair like the Rabbit, G-Spot and their friends.

Hope this helps,


  • http://casualencounters.com/blog Alex

    Thanks for reminding me about the sperm count. I need to stop smoking and head to the gym more often. Damn! It’s hard to get into clean living.

  • dazed and confused

    help im me i dont i understand something my girlfriend when we are having intercourse about 20mins or so she tells me to stop because she becomes too sensitive down there is that normal for a woman?????

  • helpful hints

    Yes it is very normal. It’s the same for guys when you have sex for a while your penis gets sensitive. Try moving away from that area once in a while and give her a break. Try kissing her all over and play with her boobs a lottle.