Why Men Love Threesomes

Why men love threesomes

Why men love threesomes

After I finally began having sex on a regular basis, I began to want more out of it. New positions and role-playing just weren’t enough. I wanted a threesome. I wanted to take on two women and live to tell about it. Which begs the questions: why do men love threesomes? Or at least the mere idea of them?

What was it about having two women that was so incredibly appealing? After all, it’s sometimes difficult enough trying to satisfy one woman, why would any man want to put himself through the torture of trying to satisfy two?

Well, it’s less about what the reality would have to offer and more about what our fantasies have to offer. Here now, are some reasons why men love threesomes.

Why men love threesomes reason #1

How threesomes start

Most threesomes I’ve heard about through friends always happen spontaneously and include plenty of alcohol. But the fantasy threesomes involve two girls we’ve never met and who allude to a tri-gathering via flirtatious innuendo.

They begin by dancing together, then sliding their hands all over each other, and finally kissing each other. They then look in the man’s direction and call him over, sandwiching him in between them and doing everything they can to turn him on immensely – which isn’t very difficult.

Of course, chances are this will never happen in our lifetime, but the fantasy of it will reside in our brains forever simply because of the sheer knowledge that it will never come to fruition.

Why men love threesomes reason #2

Two mouths, four hands

Imagine yourself laying on a bed and two men enter the room, ready to fulfill your every desire with their hands, mouths and of course, perfect erections. That’s essentially another huge bonus for a man.

We imagine two women taking pleasure in rubbing, licking, kissing, sucking, and riding us. All their attention is focused our way and they want nothing more than to ensure our satisfaction.

Of course, in reality, most women who agree or engage in threesomes do so to satisfy their own Sapphic curiosities, rather than to compete with another woman for our attention.

Why men love threesomes reason #3

Kinky behavior

More often than not, women who engage in threesomes don’t exactly behave like corpses in the bedroom; they’re wild and willing to try anything.

So when they opt to perform fellatio together or satisfy one another while one is busy giving all her attention to us, there’s something very exciting about that. There’s no doubt that every man loves a kinky woman – but having two at the same time? That’s insane.

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  • http://datedaily.mate1.com Gina

    You left out one…to them a valid reason to cheat at least when they are with us…it’s not like cheating to them…they like to cheat, and be fallen all over constantly, poor things and when they get the chance that we give them…boy they really love the stuff and all of a sudden so thankful to us. They take it, and are so so delighted, no questions asked. And those poor women that feel obligated to do so to keep him….ahhhh happy? The ever revolving story of the man issues and the excuses they get…if it were women in a threesome and we loved it so much…we’d be WHORES for crissakes….sluts….nymphomanics and a man to be in bed with another man…ohhh the shame of it, they don’t want a dick in their face…and the story and excuses wouldn’t be so nice would it? Think about it.

  • http://Myface Myron

    maybe in my case I love to watch a woman have an orgasm, two is even better!
    I just love having sex and enjoying it with my partner/s and who says that if it weren’t
    just two women a man wouldn’t enjoy it?
    If you can’t open up to enjoy it either way, don’t start it!
    All partners must be willing to take part and be open to make it happen.
    I have done it both ways several times and mostly it was great…
    If name calling is what you do or worry about a threesome, it’s not
    for you! What you do sexually is not everyone’s business!!!

  • Bill

    Gina,

    Respectfully, I disagree. Firstly, unless you define “cheat” to simply mean “have sex with another woman,” it’s not cheating. Cheating means deception, going outside the agreed parameters of your relationship. I don’t consider it cheating even if I or my partner have sex with another partner alone if–and this is the very important part–everyone is open and honest, and everyone knows what’s going on. Conversely, it’s very possible to cheat in an open relationship, too–not telling your partner about another partner, or breaking an agreed-upon rule (say, a safe-sex rule, or reserving certain activities for one partner).

    Personally, I would never want to have a threesome with my partner if she felt “obligated to do so to keep [me]“, and I think that a man who would make such a thing a condition of continuing the relationship is a major asshole.

    I’m not sure what you’re trying to say about women being “whores”. Are you saying that the women in an FMF threesome are somehow “bad” or “slutty” if they enjoy it? Or are you saying that would be true of women who engage in an FFF threesome and enjoy it? Either way, I disagree. I’ve never thought less of a woman because of how much or what type of sex she likes to engage it. I dislike the stud/slut dichotomy and don’t really understand why it’s persisted to the present.

    Finally, regarding MFM threesomes: Yes, some men are like that. Not all. I’ve participated in both FMF and MFM threesomes before. While I’m straight, it can be quite fun to watch your partner while she’s pleasured by another man. I’ve never engaged with the other man in such a threesome, but that doesn’t mean it’s not fun.

    Please note: I’m not telling you that *you’re* wrong for having your own preferences. If you don’t want to engage in group sex, that is, of course, perfectly fine. It’s merely my opinion that it’s equally fine to have threesomes or foursomes or moresomes, as long as all participants are treated as human beings with their own needs, deserving of respect.

    Anyway, I’m not sure why I wrote all that out, as you probably won’t be back this way to read it. I guess I just wanted to express my alternatives to your viewpoints. Thanks for reading.

  • Jessi

    Ignore Gina guys, I’m a girl and I would love to have a threesome. Hopefully, one day my husband will oblige me! :D

  • http://datedaily.mate1.com bonnie

    GINA, sweetheart you hit it on the noes. yes havimg a threesome is cheating as its not normal and its not what God would like. I am 50 and I feel that its disrepcet.my husband is always saying he wonts one but wont ever happen nor will i allow it to.

  • http://datedaily.mate1.com bonnie

    Gina, your right it is cheating and if your man keeps saying he would like to have one then he has no repcet for you or loves you. I am 50 and my husband has said something to me about it but I’v told him that it was against God and all morality. it will never happen here as I wont except it. And again yes Gina i is away for him to cheat.

  • Jessica

    I believe it is cheating as well and would never consent to a threesome with a man I loved and another woman. I could never watch him fuck another woman. Who would want that?