Penis Size Matters

Penis size matters

Penis size matters

I need a big penis to feel sexually satisfied. There, I wrote it. Size matters a great deal to me.

At first I thought that size matters because I liked seeing a big penis. I would have visions of skyscrapers and baseball bats, and think to myself, wow, that’s a really big penis. I wonder how it’ll feel inside me.

And then I even debated over the theory that size matters because I have evolved as a woman to want a big penis because it comes with the belief that the owner of such a huge phallus will be able to impregnate me more easily than peewee.

But then it dawned on me: Size matters because I like big penises. They just feel amazing pressing against my vaginal walls. I never have to worry about not feeling it in certain positions or consistently having to tell this man that his penis is “not too small. No really, honey. It’s just right.”

Telling people why size matters

Whenever the penis topic arises with my girl friends, I am always met with mixed reactions. Some women think I am a big whore and sleep around considering size matters so much to me and I want such a big penis.

And the guys, oh man, the guys think that my vagina must be the size of a subway tunnel considering my penis preferences include the adjectives “big” and “thick.”

Having the size matters talk

But I’m not a whore and my vagina doesn’t rival the Grand Canyon. I’m just a girl who prefers big penises. My MO doesn’t include sleeping with a guy, discovering he has a toothpick for a penis and then bolting midway through faking an orgasm.
What I do is, after a few dates (before we’ve had sex), I bring up the topic of sex with my potential partner. After a mild conversation about what our preferences are, I casually ask how big he is. And in case you’re wondering, yes, they often overestimate. So I guess size matters to men as well.

But I do have a way of getting the truth out of him. I make it clear that size matters a great deal to me and I enjoy a big penis, and I go into detail about the length and girth preferred.
Usually, if a guy doesn’t meet the criteria, he becomes defensive (sometimes angry) and feigns losing interest in me. Others become shy and withdrawn. But the ones who meet the description I provide, lean back, open their legs and ask me if I’d like another drink.

 

Big penis problems

Of course, big penises aren’t always fists full of fun; they come with their own issues and drawbacks.

To begin with, a big penis is hard to swallow — literally. I’ve had to master the art of simultaneous masturbation and fellatio because I’m a gagger. By the time I’m four inches in, I’m already blocking my airways and he’s wondering when I’m going to take it all down.

As well, in certain sexual positions and during certain times of the month, a big penis sometimes hits my cervix and forces me to stop mid-sex and tend to my soreness.

Small penis experience

But the pros far outweigh the cons because I’ve tried a small penis and I knew from the moment I saw it how much size matters to me. This average-sized phallus wasn’t going to remain on my “to-do” list.

My first sexual experience was with a guy who was about 5” solid and, even though it was my first time, it didn’t hurt the way my friends were saying it would and I didn’t enjoy the experience at all.

But when I met Tony, that’s when I knew what I was lacking in my first relationship. Of course, I didn’t leave my first simply because he had a small penis, but it was part of the grand list of “things I can’t stand about you.”

Tony had it all: brains, beauty, and was hung like a horse. During our first sexual encounter, I had such a powerful orgasm that I cried. Life was coming up orgasms.

When I asked my friends about their penis preferences, they didn’t have much to say… at first. But after I described my experiences to them so openly, many of them began to come out of their shell and revealed their secret desires to go back to the big stuff. So, more often than not, size matters to most women.

Penis size matters

There are certain things that are deal breakers in relationships; if he cheats, steals from me, lies, or has a small penis, it’s not going to last. There’s nothing wrong with a small penis, per se, but sex is a very important part of my relationships and I don’t want to live unhappily. Life is way too short for that.

So finally, what is big? I’d say about 8″ long and 6″ in girth. I like my men solid and strong.

  • http://missmelisamae.blogspot.com MissMelisaMae

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

    I thought I was the only Size Queen! I do come across the same issues from women and men alike that make assumptions just because I happen to have a preference to the size of a man’s member.

    Great read!

  • http://eagleherbs.com Al

    Ladies,

    You’re welcome to prefer any size, shape, or girth you choose. I have no problem with that, however I would also suggest that you are both women of ample intimate girth yourself.

    You know, the Kama Sutra talks about different sized people. Elephants, deer, mice, that kind of thing. Elephant sized women do best with elephant sized men (or deer if they’re really cute.) But an Elephant women won’t get enough stimulation from a mouse man, while a mouse woman will feel pain if entered by an elephant man.

    So it all comes down to partnering up with those who are a compatible size. I myself don’t boast elephant size, but it’s hard to measure too, because whenever I do, it’s always changing!

    All these “natural” products for making the penis bigger are bogus. I’m in that business, and the research actually shows that certain herbs makes one’s testicles larger, never the penis. Jokes on them, I guess. Larger balls make the penis look smaller. :)

    But I often wonder if a product to make the vagina smaller (or more elastic and supple) would help to please elephant women who end up with deer or mouse guys. This is a reasonably legitimate approach, very doable, in fact.

    What’ya gals think?

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  • JustAGuest

    See that’s the thing. What is considered big really depends on the woman herself. I understand that the recorded estimated average is 6×5 which I am over 7 and about 6 in girth but if I were average that should not limit me in a relationship. I believe if a relationship has to also depend on a man being “big” then that is really shallow. I prefer the woman just to talk to a big dildo because that is what is comes down to.

  • guest0987

    I just love average dick size. I had a man who was HUGE! Like 9″ x 7″ and that hurt! I actually had to break up with him because we could’ve never had a good, successful marriage like he wanted. So, you average to small sized guys, she’s out there for you.

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  • Liz

    some women have deeper caves than others. better to think more in terms, some women are too small to handle a big dick. It is all in the Karma Sutra so it is fine for you to have your preferences but god made us all different shapes for a reason.

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    Your friends are right about you. You are going to be a very sad and lonely woman.

  • Ashley

    My name is Ashley, have been very sexually permiscuous my whole life with men I’m bad most my friends moms hated me. I was the girl who flirted with my friends dads all the time even my own dad lol its just how I am. My mom was very out spoken about sex and bragged to friend how my dad had a big thick cock. I’m guessing that stuck in my mind and followed me as I found men more attractive growing up due to a desire to enjoy that thick cock she spoke about. This is bad and it might get taken off here lol as I was 13 the first time I sucked a guy off it was my best friends dad when he drove me home. It was just a average size and my mom would put her fingers in the length and girth of my dads cock. So I knew for a even this being a man it was kinda small we ended up having sex the next time he drove me home and like the writer of the story it didn’t hurt at all. After that I slept with allot of guys and most to be honest are the same size lol I figured out quickly. I was 16 when I met my oldest daughter dad and my true lover his cock a whopping 8 1/2″ long and 6 3/4″ around gave me that hurt and stretch I needed and orgasm others couldn’t give me. Yes size matters but I’m a highly sex driven girl so sex matters allot to me and its in my DNA my mom desires thick cock and my daddy has a thick long cock so go figure!