Tell Her What You Want In Bed

Tell her what you want in bed

Tell her what you want in bed

Isn’t it bizarre that we can have sex with our partners but we can’t talk to them about it? It pretty sad actually, but with a bit of encouragement, you will learn to not only tell her what you want in bed (as well as what you don’t want), you will also learn how to do it without hurting her feelings.

It’s important to communicate about your desires and drawbacks in the bedroom, because if you never tell her what you want in bed, how is she supposed to figure it out? Now’s your chance to tell her what you want in bed and make sure that both of you maintain a very satisfying sex life for many years to come.

Don’t attack her sexual ability

We all like to think that we’re amazing in bed, and perhaps you even are, but keep in mind that, the moment you decide to reveal that you want to talk about your sex life, you may end up hearing things you didn’t expect from your girl. And she might not broach the subject with sensitivity because, well, she didn’t expect you to bring it up and she hasn’t read this article.

It is also possible that no matter how carefully you try to bring it up, she takes offense, but so long as you are being honest and your aim is to better your relationship, she won’t be upset for long

Talk sex at the right time

You can’t decide to blurt out how bad you think your sex life is when you’re both naked in bed and she’s about to ride you. She’ll lose interest in less than 10 seconds and won’t want to get back into it for awhile.

You need to talk about sex when you’re not having it, about to have it, or are thinking of having it. This takes the pressure off performance and won’t leave you both naked and embarrassed if the conversation takes a turn in the wrong direction.

How to tell her what you want in bed

Here, now, are some ways to tell her what you want in bed and what you want to put a stop to starting tonight.

Tell her what you want in bed tip #1

Point out your own imperfections

If you want to lessen the severity of what you’re about to tell her, start off with yourself and the things you’re certain she may not like. For instance, perhaps you sometimes spend less than 2 minutes performing cunnilingus before you climb on top of her and get to the sex part.

She may agree or disagree, but at least you make it clear that you know you’re not perfect in bed before you approach the subject of “her.”

Tell her what you want in bed tip #2

Tell her what you enjoy

Before you jump into an explanation of why your penis has teeth marks, start off with all the fantastic things she does in bed. Mention all the things you enjoy before you reveal the things you’d like to change or cease altogether.

For example, if you want to let her know that biting your penis just doesn’t feel good at all, first let her know how much you love the way she twirls her tongue around your penis and teases your G-spot. That way, when you tell her what you want in bed, she won’t take it so hard when you tell her that you’d prefer it if she was more gentle with your penis.

  • Red

    I actually tried these tips and they actually worked. I loved the pointing out my own imperfections because it made her big me up and start pointing out the things I really didn’t like about her sexual behavior. Things are looking up!

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