Why Men Love Anal Sex

Why men love anal sex

Why men love anal sex

We’ve come along way when it comes to sex, and we’ve come an even longer way when it comes to anal sex. Gone are the days of thinking that anal sex was meant only for homosexuals; nowadays, 25% of heterosexual couples engage in anal sex on a regular basis.

And while some women may cringe at the mere thought of letting a penis into your butt, if you gave it an open-hearted chance, you may find that you enjoy it more than you might imagine.

And despite what you might have heard or read, anal sex is not dangerous if done right, and it should never cause pain. If it does, either you’re not ready or your man is simply not patient enough to move in slowly.

If you’re still hesitant about giving in to your man’s fantasy of having anal sex with you, perhaps my shedding some light on why he wants it will help.

Why men want anal sex reason #1

It gives us a sense of power

Although it sounds very territorial, the fact that we control the situation and lay on top of you is very empowering. As well, you put your sexual satisfaction (or perhaps, lack thereof) in our hands, entrusting us with your pleasure sense.

Men love the idea of entering you from behind and relish in the thought of sparking all those anal nerve endings and giving you the ultimate climax. And if you enjoy it and reach orgasm because of it, we really do want to sit up and beat our chests with pride.

Why men want anal sex reason #2

You trust us

The fact that you’re letting us into a part of yourself that requires the utmost trust gives us a really fantastic feeling within. And no, it’s not just a sexual one.

If you’re nervous about anal sex and you agree to try it with us, it makes us feel like a million bucks; our woman is putting all her trust into the fact that we will be caring and loving and not rip her anus in two. It means the world to us.

Why men want anal sex reason #3

It’s something new

While vaginal sex is simply fantastic, to say the least, at some point, everything becomes the norm. So when the topic of anal sex arises, you can bet that our radar perks up a bit and we become giddy about the prospect of something sexy and new.

Like having sex with a new woman or engaging in a threesome , anal sex represents a part of all the crazy things we’d like to one day do in bed. And if you enjoy it half as much as we do, well it makes it that much sweeter.

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  • http://mate.1 Dollygirl933

    I do not think it should be taboo. We have gone too far for these petty things I had this for a change but did not enjou it as we can enjoy sex facing and holding each other..
    Sue

  • http://datedaily.mate1.com Gina

    Men…find another man if that’s what you want…that’s why we women have vagina’s….I don’t want to be degraded from a man ramming his joy stick in my ass to make him happy there are other ways I know to make he a happy man.

  • http://howtodate.blog.com/free-seduction-and-sex-ebooks/ Tanay Kumar Das

    No matter how great you are at performing Kegel exercises, there’s a pretty good chance that your butt hole will always be tighter than your vaginal one. Keep in mind that the vagina was designed to bring a child into the world; the butt, not so much.

    So when we get access to this sacred area of your body, we know that our penis will feel the squeeze of tightness coming from your anus. And although you will never understand the sensation because you can never fully feel it yourself, you need to know that the sensation is unlike anything else a man will ever experience.

    A man who loves anal sex is not weird or gay or any of those things that used to be associated with anal sex. He is simply a man who enjoys the company of his woman and wants to explore her body to the depths, which includes feeling her from the back.

  • MB

    The biggest reason- PORN. They see it in porn, they want it. That simple.

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    I believe that the number one reason men love anal sex is because it’s new territory for a majority of women. It’s a way for a man to claim his stake as first to plunder. That knowledge is indeed empowering.

  • Jessi

    I love anal! :D

  • Dora

    We tried it out of curiosity. It took a while to get a full penetration. But believe it, we became crazy. I have no words to explain the pleasure me & my wife got that day, and for us there is no sex without anal sex, everywhere in the house, in the garden, in the car, almost everyday.

  • http://N/A praba

    It’s a long story.
    Early days when me & my wife had sex, at the peak of her orgasm she woud cry ‘press my butt, press my butt’ which I did, pressing her butt hard towards me. We love each other so much and we enjoy sex immensly. One day my wife said a bit shyly, when she ask me to press her butt, she means parting her buttocks. Then we continued with parting the butts for a while. Then she suggested to fondle her ass. Then I proposed to do it with figertips wetted with warm olive oil.
    Within a few days we succeeded in ball deep anal penetration and, that was when we discovered this heavenly sex pleasure. Both me & my wife took three days leave from work to enjoy our new found pleasure, a combination of vaginal & anal sex. We did not cook. We had some short breakfast & lunch, but every evening I took her to some class restaurant for dinner.
    To day, we live the happiest family life, complete and contended.
    This is a 100% true life experience.
    I can say much more …. for those who do not know what is sex pleasure means.

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  • SafeGood Sex

    Seriously??? Boring, really..There is so much more to sex than facing each other and holding each other, doesnt mean they are petty, its just being open, caring , loving and enjoying sex with your partner.