9 Mistakes Women Make In Bed

Mistakes women make in bed

Mistakes women make in bed

There are some women who just lie in bed and open their legs, and think that that’s all they need to do to keep a man happy. But other women know that men want a whole lot more than just a warm body to get inside.

And if you want to keep the passion alive in your relationship, you will need to keep stepping it up and be willing to admit that vanilla isn’t the only flavor available in the sexual spectrum.

Is your man starting to get bored with your bedside manner? Are you willing to make some change in order to keep the fires burning? Well, it’s time you started facing the truth about your sexual prowess and began making improvements, by avoiding the following.

Mistakes women make in bed #1

You stay quiet

If he goes down on you and hits the perfect spot, the spot that makes you feel like a rush of liquid is going to flow from your body, and then, suddenly, he changes his route, it may be your fault.

If you don’t make a sound when you’re having sex, you’re not letting him know when he’s satisfying you, and you’re not helping his ego.

The next time he hits “that” spot, make sure to let out a great big “yes” and moan with delight. It will help you open up (in more ways than one) and it will give him the signal to continue on when he gets it right.

Mistakes women make in bed #2

You ignore his testicles

It’s funny that everywhere you look, men are being given advice about how women need to be aroused via foreplay before they can go for the main event, but women are never told the same thing.

Well, it’s true; men want to be aroused as well. Don’t get me wrong; there are appropriate times when you can go straight for the kill, so to speak, but more often than not, a man wants you to titillate him via massages, body kisses and great oral sex.

And when you go down on him, don’t be afraid to massage his testicles with your hand and rub his anus with your finger. Explore his body and you’ll discover that there’s more to him than just a rod.

Mistakes women make in bed #3

You don’t initiate

In life, it’s accepted that men do the chasing and women do the rejecting, but once you’re actually in a sexual relationship, all of that should end. It’s a terrible blow to a man when he always has to make the move and, worse, risk your saying “no” some of the time.

To ensure that he feels desired, you need to come on to him, seduce him and even tease him. If you make him feel like a king in bed, he will make you feel like a queen all the time.

Mistakes women make in bed #4

You’re too insecure

You want the lights off, you have to be under the covers and you never want to take off your shirt. Yeah, that sounds like some really exciting sex.

If he’s with you, it’s because he likes you, so it’s time you got over your insecurities and gave in to your flaws. You can do so with baby steps by lighting candles (they provide incredible lighting). Then, when you’re comfortable with that, try doing it without the covers. And finally, get your hot ass on top of him and give him the ride of his life.

Mistakes women make in bed #5

You don’t clean beforehand

Even if you took a shower this morning, by evening time you’re not as fresh. Allowing him to go down on you at such a time is bad sexual etiquette.

Any time a man is about to go down on you, your vulva should be freshly cleansed so that all he smells are your natural aromas and all he tastes is peaches. If he has a bad experience going down there, it may spell the end of fantastic cunnilingus.

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  • Stephanie

    “without sounding offensive”? Are you kidding me? Any kind of list of “make sure you do this, and this, and this, because otherwise it’s your fault your man is not having a good time” is like saying “if you’re not ready to bend over backwards, sweetheart, you can forget about having a good sex life.”

    It would be a good idea for Mr. Downs to learn how to express himself in a less callous and self-righteous manner. Maybe it’s YOUR demanding attitude and condescension which is leading to problems in bed. I am just glad to know that not all men and women are so incapable of communicating well, and truly without such mean-spirited language; such people tend to have very good, happy sex lives. I am glad that my experience of men is not limited to those like Mr. Downs, and that I also don’t bring any kind of demanding, uncaring attitude into my bedroom. I choose considerate partners and likewise extend consideration and honest interest in MUTUAL enjoyment.

    Taking a “list of demands” approach to one’s sex life smacks of a desire to control the other person (regardless of whether it’s the man or the women being so controlling/demanding). No one of either sex should be encouraged to take this kind of attitude, and continuing to pose this as a “men don’t know what they are doing” OR a “women don’t know what they are doing” kind of issue only makes things worse. Shame on you!

  • mikaela

    i am a little a shamed with you MR. Downs. i followed your so called advice and i lost my boyfriend then my husband . you are a bad teacher. i am telling all my friends what you said and they are unhappy as well. for you kind of lied to us wemon and that isn’t nice. sometimes its the men and sometimes it is the women. its not always the women. so get your facts strate man. that just hurt me when i lost my boyfriend and then i got married and listened to what u said and lost him to. you are a mean man. i am now going to live by myself because i dont want to loose another lover.

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