9 Signs He’s Cheating

Is he cheating on you?

Is he cheating on you?

Whether you’re in a fantastic relationship or one that’s filled with arguments and power trips, sometimes even the best of us have been cheated on. What’s worse than finding out he’s cheating on you, though, is being taken for a fool.

Luckily, most guys don’t hide their indiscretions very well and leave myriad signs that they’re on the prowl behind your back.

Signs he’s cheating #1

He’s too nice

Suddenly he starts coming home and acting like you’re the greatest human being on earth. He wants to hug you all the time and treat you like a princess, when just a while ago he’d come home and barely acknowledge your existence. Something’s definitely rotten.

And when you ask him about this sudden change in behavior, he gets all defensive with the “can’t I treat my girl like gold without the third degree?” So you can either enjoy it while it lasts or investigate his time away from you further.

Signs he’s cheating #2

He gets really mean

On the other spectrum, some guys start treating you like complete crap when they start cheating on you. They go from being great boyfriends to being critical and rude at every turn.

It’s possible they want you to dump them so they can be free to spend their time with the other girl, or they might be lulling in the newness of the “perfect” girl they met and compare you to her. So every time you nag or do something he doesn’t like, he’s reminded of why, in his head, he’s cheating on you.

Signs he’s cheating #3

He’s different in bed

He went from being the missionary, 2-minute man, to the doggie-style, ass-spanking, foreplay loving, multiple orgasm dispenser. And you have no clue where all this came from.

It’s quite possible that there’s a girl out there who’s teaching him that sex can be a religious experience if he does it right, so he’s taking everything she’s teaching him and using it on you. And although it may be working, it’s quite possible he’s passing on more than sexual knowledge (read: Chlamydia).

Signs he’s cheating #4

He takes showers the instant he gets home

There was a time when he would get home, pop open a beer, kiss you, and plop down on the couch next to you to shoot the breeze. Now when he gets home, he heads straight for the shower before he does anything else.

Unless he’s home from a wild outdoor soccer game, there’s no reason why a man should hop into the shower the instant he enters the house. That is unless he has a vagina stench on him that he needs to eliminate, pronto. Then again, most guys will take a shower at her place or the motel, so tune your nose into that fresh shower smell as well.

Signs he’s cheating #5

He’s working out

You’ve been together for a while now and he has become quite comfortable in the relationship to the extent where he has started to let himself go somewhat. He has a bit of a spare tire and won’t refuse another helping of baby back ribs.

Suddenly, he enrolls at the gym and begins requesting salad for dinner. He’s losing weight and taking better care of himself, and all this is going on without warning.

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  • http://datedaily.mate1.com Gina

    What ever happens in the dark always comes to light….thanks for the tips.

  • http://gethimorherback.blog.com Tanay Kumar Das

    You can tell if your man is cheating if he is suddenly always broke. He’s broke because he is spending all of his money on the other woman. Watch as to whether he is paying with cash and making more frequent ATM withdrawals to cover his paper trail. Check any receipts, bill’s or stubs that you may have access to. Once you know if your man is cheating or not, make sure you have a plan of action that you will take after you accuse him. You need to decide whether it’s time for you to move on or whether this relationship may be worth a second chance.

    A cheating man usually starts buying new clothes, gets a new hair style or begins working out because he wants to be attractive to the other woman in his life besides you.

    A cheating man can not leave his telephone turned on when with you because his other woman may phone him. He may leave the room to have a telephone conversation or say strange things after he picks up a message from his lover. Watch for calls in the middle of the night. If you have access to his telephone bill, check it closely. Look for repeated unknown numbers, times and durations.

  • http://gethimorherback.blog.com/download-free-ebooks Dating Tips

    Don’t let a single day pass without being keenly aware of everything your husband says or does. The signs that are evident one day may be undetectable the next. Be alert to anything that appears to be a departure from his norm. Some women make a point of actively searching for telltale signs. Others feel so strongly about invasion of privacy that they only take note of readily visible telltale signs. To them, certain boundaries are not to be crossed, even for a worthy cause. If you feel uneasy about spying on your husband, do what feels comfortable to you. It helps to think of it as information gathering rather than spying. Bear in mind that sometimes the end justifies the means. The more diligently you look, the more telltale signs you’re likely to find. Some women observe telltale signs but fail to recognize them for what they are. They make no connection between what they see and what’s going on behind their back. There’s very little you’ll miss if you constantly refer to the categories in this book.

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